2018—The Wealthy Plan to Increase their Giving

The November 2016 Chronicle of Philanthropy reported on a recent study conducted by Indiana University’s Lilly Family School of Philanthropy.  That study showed that wealthy donors are planning to increase their giving at least through 2018.  Wealthy donors were defined as those with income of $200,000 or assets of $1 million. Additionally, the study noted that the wealthy give to …

Self-Fulfillment, Selfish Ambition, and the Way of the Cross

Imagine if you were offered the biggest raise of your life, the corner office and ruling power over your company.  And imagine if that offer kept coming from multiple people and multiple ways. Imagine as well if all those around you urged you to take that position, which they whispered in your ear was rightfully yours. Jesus had those opportunities. …

The Necessity of Discovery How Your Story Connects with Others

This post will be a bit longer than normal, but stick with me.  It will be worth it. I grew up poor.  Some call it dirt poor.  I remember opening the refrigerator and seeing it vividly empty.  Yet God in his grace visited us. But for a long time I got the story wrong.  I thought it was about me …

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10 Questions for Uncovering Family Stories

How do you spark storytelling among your family and preserve family memories? StoryCall, a handbook, lists 10 questions for prompting family stories: Did you have chores? What was your most and least favorite? When was the first time you drove? What was the first concert you attended? What were the main clothing styles during your school years, and how did …

10 Key Statistics on Family Legacy

When thinking about legacy, succession, inheritance and passing wealth, the reality is often much different than aspirations.  Consider the following statistics on legacy, succession and inheritance: Most wealth transfer fails. 70% of intergenerational wealth transfer fails.[1] Success depends on mission. 30% of the families that succeeded did so because they had a family mission statement and a plan to accomplish that …

We are Losing Our Stories

My dad came from a family of eight.  He died when I was just 12 years old.  His death came long before I knew enough to ask questions and to bring out his stories. To be frank, I’m not sure if he would have told them to me, or if we could have even had that kind of relationship.  Along …

Lessons from the Airport

With Thanksgiving break over, I made the trek to the airport with my son in tow.  An early morning flight made for a limited and quiet conversation.  But predictably as we neared the airport, he asked, “Dad, do you know…” And with his question, he expressed the thoughts that had probably been on his mind for 8 days. The conversation …